nervous and lost bride!!

[Palka925]

Hi ladies!!!

So I am planning to get married at the Iberostar Lindo on Labor Day weekend of 2011.  I am absolutely beyond lost, confused and overwhelmed!! I need soo much help.  I really do not even know where to begin. My fiance and I along with my parents will be visiting the resort in December to meet with the coordinator and to gain a better perspective of the resort. We will be having two ceremonies: a catholic and hindu ceremony; our guest list will tally around 100 (if not a few more); and we are all staying at the resort.

Where do I begin??? How do I find out about the ceremony setup? The reception options? I definitely want a proper sit down reception with table rounds of 10, centerpieces, dj, etc. I do know it will be buffet style since our attendance list exceeds 70.

Am I assuming all of the right things so far?

Does anyone recommend a wedding planner to better help with all of this?

It's so hard to plan a beautiful wedding and reception and live so far away!!!

I am open to every single type of advice and help!!!

[adcarter41]

Welcome! I'm sure you will be more at ease once you visit the resort and discuss things with their coordinator. You shouldn't need a planner unless you are wanting something beyond what the resort offers. Don't stress. This should be a really happy time in your life! Enjoy it!

[Nan]

 

 

Originally Posted by Palka925 

 

Hi ladies!!!

So I am planning to get married at the Iberostar Lindo on Labor Day weekend of 2011.  I am absolutely beyond lost, confused and overwhelmed!! I need soo much help.  I really do not even know where to begin. My fiance and I along with my parents will be visiting the resort in December to meet with the coordinator and to gain a better perspective of the resort. We will be having two ceremonies: a catholic and hindu ceremony; our guest list will tally around 100 (if not a few more); and we are all staying at the resort.

Where do I begin??? How do I find out about the ceremony setup? The reception options? I definitely want a proper sit down reception with table rounds of 10, centerpieces, dj, etc. I do know it will be buffet style since our attendance list exceeds 70.

Am I assuming all of the right things so far?

Does anyone recommend a wedding planner to better help with all of this?

It's so hard to plan a beautiful wedding and reception and live so far away!!!

I am open to every single type of advice and help!!!

Hey Palka 925!! I´m a BTB for MAY 2011  I´M GETTTING married at  A PRIVATE VILLA in Cancun so I decided a WC was a must. because of all the reasons you mention above. She has been very helpful. Try the MAy 2011 thread where you will find lots of helpful info and all the answers to all your doubts. Don´t panic. Everybody here is great.