Am I a terrible sister?

[rodent]

PS. welcome to the forum. With a name like "starfish kate" you will fit in here. Are you wanting starfish stuff at the wedding? Shelly started a great thread with starfish ideas.

[michelle08]

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Originally Posted by starfish kate You are totally right- I tend to over analyze things... I wouldn't care as long as I could still have my own day, when I want it. I really don't think she would have to wait until 2009 unless she wants to. I want a destination wedding (duh) and she want a huge blow-out at a fancy hotel in Boston so I guess she's the one who'd be suffering the most. Thanks for the reality check!

I don't think you are necessarily over analyzing everything...It seems that you are just a loving, caring sister and wants to make sure everything works out for everyone...

Which is great...but look out for yourself too!

[starfish kate]

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Originally Posted by Morgan PS. welcome to the forum. With a name like "starfish kate" you will fit in here. Are you wanting starfish stuff at the wedding? Shelly started a great thread with starfish ideas.

Thanks Morgan, and congratulations! I saw Shelly's thread.... I LOVE starfish but I think I'm going to keep them to a minimum for my wedding. Everyone will be expecting starfish so I think that's why I'm going to go a different direction.

[Karen]

My FIL and his wife got married 1 1/2 weeks before us. One of my best friends got engaged 2 days after we did and is getting married next month. I am her matron of honor. One of my other best friends got engaged in May and will be getting married in January. Not to mention, about 6 of us got engaged at the same time at work.

 

It was a little crazy planning our wedding while still trying to be there for everyone else during this special time. Although I know the situation is a little different from yours, I never felt like my time wasn't special because other people I loved were plannning their weddings too. Actually, it turned out to be wonderful because I got an instant bridal support group. Bottom line your day is going to be incredible because you are marrying the love of your life at the right time in your life. Nothing else will matter.

 

Like the other girls said....just by pass the waiting issue by footing the bill yourselves. And regarding making sure everyone has their share of attention, don't worry. I'm sure your family and friends have more than enough love to go around. Good Luck!