Names for Bridal Attendants

[Tina5978]

Hi Brandy,

 

I'm so bad with taking pics but I will do my best.  We should be able to pick them up within the next two days and I'm taking the girls out for dinner on Friday  

 

Hope your planning is going well.

[Brandy]

Yes, so far so good! How is your planning going?, have fun on friday with your girls!!!

[Tina5978]

I feel like I haven't done much.  I am in the process of getting a new dress and roaming all of the forums for ideas.  How about yourself?

[MrsHemmings]

Not silly at all. Why should you have to pick?  Glad that its all working out with your planning.

[Brandy]

 

 

Originally Posted by Tina5978 

 

I feel like I haven't done much.  I am in the process of getting a new dress and roaming all of the forums for ideas.  How about yourself?

 

I know exactly what you mean!!! I feel like I havent done much either, but I also feel like I dont know what I should be doing at this point, Ive been going by the DW book and according to that Im ahead of schedule other than my dress! I need to go dress shopping but I am so scared to try on a dress right now, I seriously need to loose some weight before I even step into a bridal shop!!

[Tina5978]

Don't put that kind of pressure on yourself Brandy.  Find a dress that suits your figure now and that looks fabulous on you!  Trying to lose a lot of weight may leave you disappointed.  I'm a big girl and I'm just trying to remain realistic lol, if I lose more weight then it will just be a major plus!

[Brandy]

Yea I know, I just want to be healthy though, nothing drastic, maybe a good 15 pounds and Ill be pleased, I just feel so out of shape lately and not happy with myself, Ive just been so busy I guess I stopped taking good care of myself.

[abbie32]

I felt the exact same way but it is a lot of pressure to put on yourself. I just started to look at things a little differently. Basically, I went dress shopping looking for something that would make me feel great at the weight I am right now which I'm not happy about. If I can find something that I feel good in now than I will feel like a million bucks when I lose weight and put it on! hahahaha   It seemed to work and I found the perfect dress for a destination wedding!!

[Brandy]

 

 

Originally Posted by abbie32 

 

I felt the exact same way but it is a lot of pressure to put on yourself. I just started to look at things a little differently. Basically, I went dress shopping looking for something that would make me feel great at the weight I am right now which I'm not happy about. If I can find something that I feel good in now than I will feel like a million bucks when I lose weight and put it on! hahahaha   It seemed to work and I found the perfect dress for a destination wedding!!

I know exactly what your saying, I think my fear is what if the dress I buy now, doesnt look good on me come my wedding day once Ive dropped the pounds, and what if I could have found an even greater dress for my figure that I will have on my wedding day, I dont know I guess its silly but thats what I worry about for some reason.