Freaking test results...

[kevsgirl]

So I posted a thread way back at the end of May (seems like forever ago) about how FI had gotten his sperm tested about 2 or 3 weeks before that.

He had a vasectomy reversal about a year or two ago and had never had a test to see if it was successful.

 

He was putting it off, because he was scared to see the results in case they weren't positive.

 

So I didn't say anything for a while, but when I went to the doctor for a pre-pregnancy talk (what vitamins, going off pill, etc.) in May, FI decided he should really get tested.

 

Only the results never came and he doesn't ever seem to remember to call up and follow up to see why we didn't get them in the mail.

 

I'm so frustrated. I know it's a touchy subject for him, but it's touchy for me too. I can't stand not knowing for so long. That with the stupid invitations not coming for over amonth and I'm going nuts.

 

So I mentioned him calling the doctor about 2 weeks ago. I mentioned it again a few days ago, but he didn't do it before he left for canoeing and he comes back tomorrow night (Thu) and we leave Fri morning for a road trip all weekend.

 

I seriously have no more patience left.

I miss him like crazy right now, but the not knowing if we can have kids has me losing it.