Is anyone buying their BM dresses??

[MarchBride]

I'm having two BM, one of them being my unemployed sister, so I will be paying for their dresses. My FI is also thinking about paying for the outfits for the GM, but he hasn't quite made up his mind on that as yet.

[JennyK]

What I did was buy all of them, and they are just giving me the money when they can. I am though - as a gift - buying my fg's dress as well as my rb's

[morenaindc]

I was grappling with the same issue recently and I decided to purchase their dresses. I feel great about my decision now!

[amyrak]

I'm not. I offered for one BM but she said no. I guess I paid for all theirs when I was in all their weddings and they are a lot older now so more financially stable then I was back then. I am getting them gifts, jewelry and paying to get their hair done (if they want to do it theirselves I will pay for a massage) I'm also letting them choose their own dresses.

[beachbride08]

I bought the dresses for my BMs and an extra one to make a flower girl dress for my sister. Luckily, I got them on sale so they were not expensive. I plan on getting them a nicer gift since I didn't spend that much on the dresses.

[meltanirie]

We are putting of half for both GM & BM clothing plus we are paying for all their food and transportion to and from activities on the island (1 week for 14 people). maybe a small token after but that's about all we can afford right now and it's alot for us. I say if you can't afford and they are truly friends they will understand, ours did.

[cessyboston]

UPDATE***

I gave the girls there dresses...yuppie One of the best gifts I have given..I got them at Jcrew as I have posted and they where so thankful and they all fit...