So what if I'm having a DW and an AHR???!!

[mareW9]

Aw! I'm so sorry everyone is making this difficult on you! I was shocked by how many people had an opinion about our plans! My mom thought DWs were something only famous people did (!!!) and the rest of my friends and family have been complaining about the cost of travel. We're also legally getting married here and doing an Indian ceremony here with just our families. Everyone really should mind their own business and just not come if they don't want to!

[snow88]

My co-worker keeps making comments about why I don't get married just my fiance and I. I think she's jealous because I have an awesome location and she didn't think to have one there. She got married on the beach at a hotel and she even suggested that I do the same thing but my fiance family is from Jamaica so they would have to pay to go to the hotel. Plus like I told her, we have chosen our location and we won't change it for anyone. It's what we chose together. I might be having an AHR too but originally I wasn't planning on having one.

 

Do what you want and don't tell anyone your plans. I learned that the hard way.