Acknowledging important guests not able to come on program?

[swankster77]

Ok, I've seen it where loved ones who have passed are recognized on the wedding program... but I'm wondering if it would be weird or acceptable to recognize close family that can't make it on the program instead?

 

For example, my father, grandparents and my FI's brother can't make it... I was thinking just a little line at the bottom or something. Thoughts?

[~Nicole~]

I think its your wedding and if you want to mention them then do it!

[stina76]

I was just wondering the same thing, like how to word that! I have a section at the end of my program that has a little poem and in memory of our deceased family. But I have one set of grandparents that are still living but just can't make the trip. What did you decide to do?

[swankster77]

I left it off... my FI said it sounded like I was talking about deceased family.. I disagreed but worried other people might wonder. But I'd say go for it. I wish I did.

[MDLady]

We included a note about our deceased grandparents. I do agree that it might be confusing if you list those who cannot attend.