Need advise on MOH and GM

snow88 · May 10, 2010

My MOH isn't coming. I have to choose a new MOH so I was wondering if it would be okay to choose my biological daughter. Her adopted mother is okay with it but I was wondering because she's 21 and the BM is much older if that would seem strange? The BM is probably in his late 30's. I'm thinking of having one of my sons give me away. He's 16yrs old. My other son is 19yrs old and I thought he could be the usher or that maybe both could give me away? My 4 yr old would be the ring bearer. Any other suggestions or thoughts on this? The BM is my FI brother and the GM is his nephew. His nephew is maybe in his 30's as well.

~Nicole~ · May 10, 2010

I think that all of those choices are very personal ones and there's no right or wrong. That's what makes every wedding so special..... I say do what's in your heart . I'm not sure what kind of relationship you have with your sons, but if you're close with both, maybe get them both to give you away? Then the 19 yr old won't feel excluded or feel that his role in the ceremony is less important. Good luck!