does "she" have to be in my family pictures?!?

[LA923]

I really like the idea of putting her in for a picture or two and just not choosing those to purchase. That way everyone is happy and there are no hurt feelings. Best of luck.

[sunstarsmoon]

As far as family photos I say no, What happens in the future if they are not together and here is this girl in all the family photos, how do you think your FI's brother's future wife may feel about it!

 

As far as group shots of wedding guests then yes that would be kinda difficult not to include her in those.

[chrissytina924]

Thanks girls.. you are the best... i will have her in one with us and him and then in very few of his family pics... that is also a good idea to go over with the photographer what pics and with who we are looking for...

 

I knew there was a reason i ranted on here bc you girls know the right answer!!!

 

Thanks again!!

[Thomasjsgirl]

All good advice! I would also speak with the photog about her and mention that if she's starting to cause a scene, include her in a few shots but position her on the edges of the group. She can easily by photoshopped right out of those pics!

[MDLady]

I feel for you but I would hate for you to have so much focus on her on such a beautiful day. It might ruin it for you if you are stressed out about where she is and what pictures she is in. I wouldn't focus so much on eliminating her from pictures but rather taking pictures with your family and the bridal party. If she is in any other pictures, just don't choose them. Photographers usually give you plenty to choose from. Just don't let it ruin your day girl!!!!