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I'm in the Midwest, so central standard time, and when I saved the invitation to my Outlook calendar it came through as 11:30-1 pm.. So for EST I would think that means it will be 12:30-2 pm for you.

 

Originally Posted by lisadias View Post

I have registered for it even though I think most of my questions are answered just to be curious and see what is said. Thanks for the link though! Anyone know the time for someone who lives in ontario on EST?



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My wedding is on the beach and my cocktail hour is at the Blue Bar and reception inside the Bamboo Room. I would have preferred it on the beach or outside but my FMIL (who is footing most of the bill and pretty much is getting her way in everything) wants something inside. The FMIL is a whole other issue in itself right now. She's making my wedding planning hell!!

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Christa, my mother in law which is what i think FMIL means lol is fantastic! That is the one person who has not stuck her nose in at all. Actually i have the reverse problem, I am doing all the planning with no help from my sisters who are my bridesmaids! They are useless tits right now and then there is my father who is complaining about costs and has yet to tell me he is giving me penny! And well my own mother, that's a whole different story and my other sister aren't even coming! So I guess we are have issues! lol I say screw them ALL !!!!! I just want to marry my man and wish I would have listened to him when he said we should just go me and you! The one time he was actually right in the relationship lol :)

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Lisa- Yes it's my future mother in law. She is paying for the wedding and what I wanted was a small ceremony which is turning into a three ring circus. Nothing I want is good unless she comes up with it. Now we are battling over photographers. I can feel my stress level rise over this. My father passed away 5 years ago and my mother is not in the picture so it's just her and her opinons. My sister helps when she can but I don't feel much support from her either. My FI is kinda stuck in the middle right now and I try not to make him there. I decided over the weekend to take back some control of my wedding, which she is planning like it's her own.

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It is your day and she needs to respect that regardless if she is paying! Take that control back like you said. Try not to let it get to you cause it will physically get you sick over it, I know it has happened to me and now I am just going to do what I want when I want. Hopefully you FI will stand behind you. My advice would be to have a sit down all together and politely tell her how you feel.

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