April 2011 Brides

[Brandy]

Kitty, my FI has a swimsuit that looks pretty close to that and he bought it at hollister but that was a few years ago but im sure they still have the same ones every year, hollister and abercrombie ususally carry those!

[Brandy]

heres the closest I could find

[lsmith211]

SO, FI and I basically said from the beginning that we would be ok with anyone that wanted to come to the wedding...  We have a few guests that have significant others that we haven't met, but figured whatever - if it'll make their vacation better we'll deal with them coming.  Of course we only said this to each other and did not broadcast it, and we figured that only people we cared about would spend the $$ to come as our resort is on the pricy side....

Well - yesterday FI got a facebook message from someone that we went to highschool with and haven't talked to since!!  We are 30, by the way - and neither one of us was friends with him - he's honeslty crazy and into some crazy drugs - oh and his gf is my ex's sister who has also been to rehab on a number of occasions and I haven't talked to in about 8 years...

Well, he said to FI - "we're thinking of taking a last minute vacation and we'd love to come to your wedding!  Which resort are you staying at in Jamaica and what are the dates?"

Seriously???? 

[kitty25967]

Brandy ~ I like those!  I will check to see if they have them and the FI may get a "prize" this week.  Thank you pay day today  We like to give each other "prizes" instead of "presents" or gifts

[Brandy]

What!?!?!? Thats just weird!!!!!!!

[Meggers7484]

I don't think people quite realize that we're spending a lot of money on this wedding. Between the booze cruz, the welcome bags, favours and the extra $70/ per person for the reception we are spending well over $200 per person! I don't want to spend $200 each for random people to show up at our wedding!

[Meggers7484]

That is bizzare!!!! I hope your FI said HELL NO!!

[Ellabaja1983]

 

 

Originally Posted by lsmith211 

 

SO, FI and I basically said from the beginning that we would be ok with anyone that wanted to come to the wedding...  We have a few guests that have significant others that we haven't met, but figured whatever - if it'll make their vacation better we'll deal with them coming.  Of course we only said this to each other and did not broadcast it, and we figured that only people we cared about would spend the $$ to come as our resort is on the pricy side....

Well - yesterday FI got a facebook message from someone that we went to highschool with and haven't talked to since!!  We are 30, by the way - and neither one of us was friends with him - he's honeslty crazy and into some crazy drugs - oh and his gf is my ex's sister who has also been to rehab on a number of occasions and I haven't talked to in about 8 years...

Well, he said to FI - "we're thinking of taking a last minute vacation and we'd love to come to your wedding!  Which resort are you staying at in Jamaica and what are the dates?"

Seriously???? 

 

This is absolutely insane!  I couldn't imagine having the guts to do something like this....  I think you should give them different dates and the same hotel, or the same dates in a hotel in a completely different area!!!

 

[Lua]

I can't believe someone actually asked you that!!?!?!? how does this guy think he is?!!? lol

[lsmith211]

I know, eh!?!  Luckily FI is going to handle it...  His attitude is that he doesn't really care if these people are insulted and never speak to him again, cause they aren't friends in the first place!  But it's still an awkward situation to put us in to have to tell them that they can't come.....  I mean come on!  We had to cross people off our invite list cause it was up over 120 - these people wouldn't even come close to making the cut!!