INDECISIVE Bride!

[Amymarie]

Hey Ladies,

 

I am finding that i am ridiculously bad at making a decision on everything from my AHR catering company to my DW cake topper! Is anyone else having this problem? I have two months left and i am feeling the stress. Any advice other than "eeny meeny miny moe" ?

[mrs.timpone]

amy i am the same way....i searched for my dress for two months, changed my mind 3 times!!! I changed my girls dresses 2x! i dont know whats wrong with me i wish i could stop but i second guess everything. I just want everything to be perfect

[JENISE]

My advise is take a deep breath and go with your gut.

 

Second guessing yourself will drive you crazy. Ask you FI for his input and go with your instincts and you should be fine.

 

Good luck planning!

[shae]

i agree, ask your fiance for his input or perhaps your maid of honor. or post a poll here and you'll definitely get some great advice about anything you need an opinion on! good luck!

[midnight24]

oh i know exactly how you are feeling. all this wedding stuff is completely new to me so i had never even paid attention to any of this stuff before. i couldn't even believe all the descisions that need to be made...and if your FI is anything like mine...he just says to pick whatever i think is best.

 

my advice to you is to keep photos of the things you like. i saved photos online and kept little galleries on my usb key (i also recommend to back that up cuz i lost mine 2x now in the past 8 months...haha). really look at the things you like and decide why you like them.

 

one of the things that helped me make descisions after this was thinking how i wanted my wedding photos to look in 5yr, 10yrs, 15yrs, 20yrs etc from now. i normally am a very creative, bright coloured type person and i ended up going with more classic, simple, elegant designs for details because i didn't want to look back in 20yrs and say 'oh god what was i thinking?'

 

if you need too...'google' bad, tacky & retro weddings' for some what not to do ideas. haha.

 

another thing to do is just go with your first instinct! don't overanalyze everything.

 

good luck and enjoy the process!

[Riri09]

I have been having the same problem so I know how you feel. The only decision I have made that is set in stone would be my bridesmaids dresses (they are here and in my closet!) and honestly, the only reason I made that decision was because Jcrew was offering 30% off the sale price! Now that I've done that I kind of have something to work off of. Before I knew what the dresses were going to look like I had 10 million ideas floating around and I couldn't make a decision. Its kind of like a "vision" is coming together. If that makes any sense...

[adridashanne]

I have to say go with your gut as well - at least then you'll have no regrets and you'll know that the decision you made at the time, is the one you thought was right.