Why are people so rude??

elisamarie · September 6, 2011

People are going to be rude and say rude things whether or not you get married away or at home. I think unfortunately it's just one of those things that come along with wedding planning. Everyone seems to want you to make it easy for them despite what your plans or dreams for your wedding might be. At the end of the day, this is your wedding and should be about what you want. Don't let other people's negativity bring you down, that's their problem. Chin up and have fun!!!!

mrsbruff2b · September 6, 2011

These are some of the reasons WHY we chose a destination wedding. It weeds out a flakes. Obviously if someone can't afford it, I won't hold it against them. I put all the snarky comments aside and just smile because that means that person wont be there to ruin the day in the end. Good riddens!

kymish · September 8, 2011

i totally understand where you and the other ladies are coming from !!. all my friends who i have talked about my wedding with wont be coming because its not gonna be local. They keep asking me to change it but frankly i live 5 hours away from them for the last 3 years and not once have they even made the trip here to see me.( i go to them a week every 4 months to visit) I personally want a dw so that most of my side of the family doesn't come, i haven't spoken to most in years and if it was held locally they would be invited out of guilt and they would only show for the food and drinks ( it sounds harsh but its true). my sis and BIL will be the only attendees on my side. as for my FI side.. would u believe we still havent told them lol... its going to be nothing but lectures and i really dont care enough to listen to it right now LOL.

Remember Ladies its ur and his big day.. plan it for where you want to be and surround yourself with the ppl who support you and the decisions on your wedding. last thing you want is to be at your DW and have to listen to ppl whine and moan about the money they are spending to be there.