Just want to un-invite some family!

[creoletexan]

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Originally Posted by roo66 Deffo kill them with kindness,and if they dont come no worries.Im not sure i would want someone so negative in my room when i hope to look and be told i look beautiful.I dont think you can have a hope in hell of getting that from your mum even on your wedding day.So if se does decide to come keep her away from your room.You will have a wonderful wedding no matter wot xxx My dads not coming with us in September purly for selfish reasons although already hes saying Lanzarote is the place to spend the new year.Hes in for a shock my mum is never going on holiday with him again.She has booked to come here in Feb and of course with us all in September quite honestly we will have more fun without him so im not wasting my energy on him sad but true.When my mum was so sick in October he left me in Dublin city all by myself cos he couldnt handle it.He wasnt there when she had a normaly fatal heart attack and when i rang to say she was in theatre and they wernt sure if shed make it he said ill be up at 10 tomorrow.He left my brother and i to deal with her death if it had happened by ourselves.I havnt spoken with him over the christmas new year break cos i dont have anything to say to him.I always had my dad on a pedestal but not anymore.SOOOO WHAT IM SAYING IS SEND THE INVITES WITH A DEADLINE CONTINUE TO PLAN WITH OR WITHOUT THEM. xxx

I'm am SO SORRY your dad was acting that way, but I will take your advice.. though I am trying to resist the urge of doing their invites on post-it notes..

[Sheree10]

Don't let it get to you. I agree, take the higher road and send them the invites whether they say they will come or not. Don't stress over those who don't come. Enjoy your time with those who are able to make it. It's about you and hubby. Even if people can't make it or don't come they should be respectful of your wishes and keep their opinions to themselves.