MOH who says shes coming but still no response..

[purpleshells]

well I have a bridesmaid..I will just have her is all

[hat0112]

That is horrible! Your "friend" is being respectful at all. Unfortunately you need to move on. If she really was a friend she would have responded to your multiple attempts to contact her.

[carolina24]

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Originally Posted by jstar83 well I have a bridesmaid..I will just have her is all

screw it! your bridesmaid (and you FI of course) will be all you need

[clfaidl2]

I'm sorry that happened to you! I wouldn't count on her, after a 7 year friendship you would think you would get better communication than that. I think you should say you have to know what is going on, is she going to man up to the role of MOH or not. If she delays responding to you or ignores you, I would ask someone else. Good luck

[dyanh]

So sorry to hear that!! I can totally sympathize because my best friend/MOH of over 15 years just told me she isn't coming because she can't afford it. Yet she has more than enough money for trips that she wants to take and things she wants to buy. And I gave everyone almost a years' notice!

[purpleshells]

a month and half later..lol..still nothing.....dont worry im no longer waiting tho..now its just turned into this "guess all this time that i thot we were good friends, we werent" wtv...thats life... at a certain age,ive found mid 20s ur friends become limited and ppl have their own lives..ppl r busy..ppl change...move on..wtv

[Pandabride6]

jstar, I'm so sorry to hear about this. I went through a similar situation with my former MOH. Known her since kindergarten and she decided to plan her wedding a month before me. Not a big deal but she agreed to being MOH before she even got engaged and called me to tell me it wasn't in her budget to go to my wedding.

 

What shocks me is one of my other BM's is planning on making a trip after she moves to GERMANY from the US, to be in my wedding. She said that's a priority of hers and I couldn't be more appreciative.

 

The point is, no matter how long you've known a person, you may not be a priority to them even though you wouldn't do that to them. You gotta wish them luck and move on. I know, I have!

[Sheree10]

If she was a real friend she would have contacted you by now and told you the truth- instead of hiding. Now you see her true colors, don't dwell on it.

[SusieQ]

That really sucks that she is treating you like that... I am thinking she is jealous and just wants to create a situation about her. Her holding you hostage on whether she is going to show or not is her control. Don't let it hurt you and just move on.... Good Luck Hun... you have given her more than she deserves

[purpleshells]

not dwelling anymore...shes gone

 

I think as a matter of fact we wont be having ANY bridesmaid or groomsmen..saves on cost,stress, time,and $$