Bridal Party Cancellation-Who pays for attire??

[amandseth]

So my bridesman recently told me that he may not be able to make it to Mexico, due to some pending issues with the government (won't go into the lengthy details here)...

 

I've bought him a guayubara worth about $60 for the wedding, which is still at my house and he has not yet paid for.

 

Do I take the hit (can't really afford to, otherwise it wouldn't even be a question) or do I ask him for the money for the shirt anyway?

[boscobel]

If it was me, I'd take the hit. But if I was him, I would've offered to pay for it. Can't you return it?

[amandseth]

Hmm.. I hadn't thought of that. Might be an option I'll have to explore...

[autjo]

That stinks. I hope he can get his stuff worked out. I would probably take the hit if I couldn't return it. Or at least try to sell it.

[riokayak]

You can probably sell it on here if you can't return it.

[RaychelRae]

Since it hasn't been used yet I'm sure you wouldn't have any troubles selling it, that is if you can't return it.

[ldeavila]

You should try selling it on here if you can't return it.

[*Nadine*]

I would definitely try selling it.. i wouldnt feel right asking for a friend to pay for a shirt b/c of uncontrollable issues preventing them coming to my wedding.

[Jess]

yeah try selling it - I would feel bad asking my friend to buy it.

[IrishgirlinNY]

I agree. Try to sell it if possible or return it. I don't think I would feel comfortable asking my friend for the money either.