Should I be upset???

[LeNell]

Hi All,

 

My wedding is 7 months away and no one from my FI family has booked. Some people are staying they dont have the money but they have took maybe 5 trips this year (FI mother). I'm like come on now its only 774.00 for 3nights. Should I be upset Would you be??

[Lady_Di]

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Originally Posted by LeNell Hi All, My wedding is 7 months away and no one from my FI family has booked. Some people are staying they dont have the money but they have took maybe 5 trips this year (FI mother). I'm like come on now its only 774.00 for 3nights. Should I be upset Would you be??

No, it is still 7 months away. It's less than 8 months for us and nobody has booked. People will procrastinate and book maybe a month before your wedding! I hope this won't happen!

[kate.com]

The majority of our guests booked around 3 months out. Many waited until the month before... people are procrastinators... unfortuneatly it is a part of a DW. As long as you and your FI make it... that is what is important.

[LeNell]

Thanks this makes me feel better

[cutedimplestee]

My wedding is in May and most of my family members are saying that they are waiting until December or January to book. So I don't think you have anything to worry about.

[LeNell]

I hope not we asked everyone to book by Jan.1

[kate.com]

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Originally Posted by LeNell I hope not we asked everyone to book by Jan.1

And they won't all be booked by then... be prepared for that:) Hopefully you'll have a good IDEA who's coming, but there will be stragglers. Again, part of a DW.

(We asked people to book by Nov. 1 and people were still booking mid december... our wedding was Jan 23)

[LeNell]

I didnt know it was going to be this hard

[kate.com]

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Originally Posted by LeNell I didnt know it was going to be this hard

You'll be fine:) I am just telling you this so you don't get worked up about it. Chose your battles... and try not to worry. I promise it will be PERFECT in the end. And the people that are supposed to be there, will... even if it is a different group than expected. I can tell you this from personal experience and from reading other girls' stories around the forum, you are def. not alone. And that is why the forum is so important! So you can vent.

Do you have your dress picked out? How is the rest of your planning going? I'd focus on that!

Hang in there... you guys make a cute couple by the way.

[jk1101]

Hi LeNell - I totally feel your pain - my wedding is in 6 months and nobody has booked. I've sent STDs, email reminders and my invitations went out last week. My rates even dropped to $379 for 4 nights (and I sent out an extra email for that) and still nobody. I guess people book when they're good and ready : (