How to ask multiple MOHs?

jdrewett · September 26, 2009

I am going to have my 2 sisters and my 2 childhood best friends to be my MOHs, with no bridesmaids. My fiance has 2 high school friends and 2 college friends. It was going to be too hard for us to choose one of each, since the girls are close with each other and the guys are all close too. I know it's not traditional..but who cares. I thought it would be fun for the 4 girls to work together on planning. I want to come up with a creative way to ask them. Everything I find says Will you be my bridesmaid? or maid of honor? How can I word that they will be co-MOHs/team of MOHs without sounding ridiculous?? lol.

smith3576 · September 26, 2009

I think it's a great idea! I hand made some cards - I found pictures online of hideous BM dresses, printed them out, and pasted my BM's head (from pictures I had of them) on top of it. In the inside, a wrote the message. They loved them and they were simple to do - just bought card stock.

I wish I would have thought of asking all of them to be MOH - they have all done SO much for me for the wedding, they really all have acted as MOH. But I was MOH for one of them; I wonder if she would have minded not getting that distinction?

jdrewett · September 30, 2009

OK, here is what I am going to do! Since a DW is non-traditional anyways...why not just make up my own name for them instead of MOHs and BM? They are going to be our "Senoritas" and "Senors"! Here is the thread about the passport covers we are going to give them with a note inside to ask them: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t49765