What to do if people respond "NO" to your Pre-RSVP

[lnf_munchkin]

Wow - what to do . . . I hate being pushy . . . and I guess I'm kinda a thinking if you say no once why would you change your mind. I just don't want to completely blow my bugdet because other's can't decide!

[adelaide]

Wow - it never even occured to me to send the formal invites to those who RVSP'd No to the STD. I think by doing destination weddings most of us are throwing traditional etiquitte out the window anyhow so I say do whatever works for you. I will not be sending out formal invites to the people who RVSP'd No (except to my 97 year old grandmother who obviously can't come but would love to be included )

 

Cheers!

A.

[August2010Bride]

My mom is calling those family members who said no to make sure... We will not send invites if they have already told us they can't come. Do what works for you!

[KRama]

I'm not planning on sending a formal invite to those that said no. I'll be sending them an invite to our AHR instead and I'm thinking of including a small card that says something like "It's not too late!" and provide our TA's contact information in case they do change their mind.