How can he do this?

[josee]

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Originally Posted by SusieQ Sending you hugs.... The one person in your life that you never amagine letting you down is Daddy!!!!! Stay strong and put it behind you. One day he will be sick and want you there for him, plan a vacation!!!!!!

Thanks Suzie, you made me laugh. I just love the way you think!!

[DanielleNDerek]

Sorry Josee. I hope your dad changes his mind and decides to come.

[BachataBride]

I'm sorry you are having to deal with this - one question though. How is your relationship with the girlfriend?? Is she being honest with you?? Could she be trying to cause something between you & your dad?? (ok...so that was three questions!!) Just trying to see another side of it - look at all angles..KWIM?!

[josee]

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Originally Posted by BachataBride I'm sorry you are having to deal with this - one question though. How is your relationship with the girlfriend?? Is she being honest with you?? Could she be trying to cause something between you & your dad?? (ok...so that was three questions!!) Just trying to see another side of it - look at all angles..KWIM?!

My father's girlfriend is a very nice person and I have a great relationship with her. She's been in the family for years now and she would never do anything to hurt me or someone else. It is not a financial problem, health problem or personal problem; my father decided that he just does not like Jamaica and does not want to come. I am trying very hard to accept his decision and thinking about who will be there instead of who won't be!!!

[Ana]

oh wow! that's terrible! can you talk to him about it?

[Krista_H]

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Originally Posted by josee My father's girlfriend is a very nice person and I have a great relationship with her. She's been in the family for years now and she would never do anything to hurt me or someone else. It is not a financial problem, health problem or personal problem; my father decided that he just does not like Jamaica and does not want to come. I am trying very hard to accept his decision and thinking about who will be there instead of who won't be!!!

That's a great way to think of it. Although you want him there, there will be great supporting people there with you because they want to be there.

[TAHOEJENI]

What a bummer. Sorry for you.

 

My dad isn't coming but that's because I don't talk to him anymore. He decided to steal a couple thousand dollars from me last spring and lie about it for months..... nice work. Loser.