"You finally got rid of your fiance?"

[~*Kathy*~]

that's hilarious, don't capricorns and libras typically NOT get a long? Glad you understand that we are very "special" and by that I'm sure you mean irritating hahaha.

 

When's your FI's birthday, if you don't mind my asking?

[karenk77]

not at all..hes the 12th, and my aunt who is like my 2nd mom i speak to them both too many times a day shes the 13th.

no not irritating..ill say vain which i think is a result of the insecurity that comes along with it..care what everyone else thinks, afraid of change..not all that ambitious, very passive, and content with whatever you have..BUT..the most devoted, the most sincere, the kindest, affectionate, nonconfrontational and loving people in the world..if you love them you'd give them you're kidney if it meant helping them.

umm do we get along? yes for the simple fact that capricorns are insanely loyal so we love all the sincerity that you libras have..my fi and I differ because i am much more of a dooer, very practical and a realist..he's still waiting for opportunities he thinks will plop on his lap. So im the propellor up his ass, like a real firecracker and hes the one to calm me down..lol

[~*Kathy*~]

haha, that's a pretty good description though I wouldn't say I'm vain....though I can be very insecure for sure. My DH is an aquarius, we're pretty much day and night and I think that's why we get along so well. I talk, he listens

[KarenM]

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Originally Posted by ~*Kathy*~ ohhh Karen, I SO get it! I'm the same, I'm a very giving person in relationships and friendships and I really want everyone to be happy (which is next to impossible of course) and I'm really sad/frustrated when I can't make everyone happy, ya know? It's a horrible, vicious circle for me and I let it bother me when I shouldn't, but what are ya gonna do?

Kathy, KK, we are 3 "K" peas in a pod!! Seriously, you two are describing me!! But, I'm a libra not a capricorn (but my mama's one). I'm the peacekeeper and always think of other people first, sometimes too much so.

K, def de-friend this acquaintance from FB. What a loser. She's obviously trying to weasel her way into your good graces to go to the DR! Not gonna happen! And how awful your FI had to read that & even wonder. Not funny at all.
As far as your "good friend", her response is really hurtful and it's more than understandable that you'd want to write her off. She may be jealous of you; without knowing anything about her it sort of rings a buzz to me. I think you should take a deep breath and maybe have a sit-down with her at some point just to let her know you were hurt by what she said. It doesn't have to be all dramatic, but simply explain your feelings. If she is a friend at all, she should want to hear how you feel.

keep your chin up lady!

[karenk77]

not even vain in like a care about urself gettin your lips and boobs done vain..vain like obsessing about every little thing about you like your skin, or your hair or whatever it is..not like hollywood vain..just within your self and you perfections & imperfections vain.

i probably sound like a nutjob right now..lol..but i so believe in the sign stuff

[~*Kathy*~]

ohhhhh Karenk77, I totally get what you mean now. Yeah, I hold myself to a pretty impossible standard so I pretty much think I'm ugly/fat/not good enough 24/7 lol. Not even just physical stuff either though, but sometimes I think I'm not good enough at a certain thing or not smart enough. Blah, I hate me some days haha. I'm in to astrology too, not horoscopes but astrological sign profiles interest me.

 

KarenM - hehe that's funny, 3 peas in a pod!

[karenk77]

Ok Kathy i wish i could hug you...dont even say things like that..u are as good as you let yourself feel and if you allow yourself to believe your amazing you'll see how true it is. we all hate ourselves some days..hell i hate myself now i just ate like so much cheese in between these messages its disgusting lol.

now to my other pea in my pod- not even worth having the convo..if she was a friend she would have acted like one..not say i'll see what i can do AND not tell someone she knows im not speaking to about my business..but shes soo dramatic (shes actually a libra too) lol that shes going to turn it into this whole thing and i dont want to be bothered..she did this with our engagement party too..she asked me if i would care if her husband went to a ballgame instead cuz he really wants to go..i was like r u f'n kidding me? what do u think im gonna say..dont come? ofcourse i want him there this is the most important day in our lives together so far besides the actual engagement.. what he chooses to do is his business(and hes kinda friends with my fi so he was hurt when i told him too) so then it was this drawn out thing..he ended up coming but then i felt like an idiot because it was like a pity attendance or alteast we felt that way

[~*Kathy*~]

lol thanks Karenk77, you're so sweet You probably have conversations about this stuff with your FI all the time I bet.

 

Oh, and since you're as in to astrology as me, you'll probably enjoy this site. It's one of my faves!

 

Astrology Signs - Explore The Star Signs

 

I've learned a ton of "new" stuff about my signs here, it's fascinating!

[karenk77]

omg i do alllllllllll the time and i want to shoot myself, youre a girl its diff..hes a guy and i get so annoyed when talks about all these things, and potions and his gym that he lives in and his muscles if they are bigger or smaller and his stomach and his hair and his shirt wrinkled and sometimes i want to SCREAM..like seriously ur a guy, when he starts i just say nobody cares nooooobodyyyyy cares lol

[karenk77]

how funny?

my horoscope for today:

You can get much farther with a kind word and a gun than you can with a kind word alone. Start every day off with a smile and get it over with. It's possible you'll discover those things you've always denied

(yea like my friends arent my friends afterall)