"You finally got rid of your fiance?"

[ChelseaRose]

First of all, I think that you are totally in the right to not invite the girl who posted that message on fb. I feel terrible for your FI, because no matter how many times you tell him it was a joke and that girl isn't even your friend, it still hurts.

 

As for your "friend", I think you are right on. I wouldn't say anything at all, just sit back and watch. I would try to keep your distance from her for your own sanity, and I surely wouldn't share anymore details of your wedding with her unless you really wanted to. You shouldn't even have to be dealing with this crap!!

[karenk77]

Kathy thats exactly me..i dont either because I know what i give, I know what i get in return and for that I don't trust easily because girls are awful. Like I have been in 9 weddings NINE! MOH 3 times, and mind you im 32 and only met my fiance at 29 so i was in the dating game forever, i mean never single for long, but wasnt with anyone for too long either lol..and never once did I ever ever think why them not me..ever..i was there happy for everyone..dont have a jealous bone in my body genuinely want everyone to be happy and healthy and thats it..and somehow when its reversed, everyone always had something to say when it came close to my happiness so i cut alot of people off..and my fiance thinks im nuts because one minute hes sees me friends with someone the next minute im not and he doesnt get it because a) hes a guy im so lucky that he has amazing friends so they all became our friends...and they are the only ones besides family that are truly happy for us.

but generally speaking people dont get it, because nothing matters its more like what can i get from you today oh nothing? k lemme f*ck you over then lol

[t&kJanuary2010]

I don't think she even deserves a text like that...she will see her self. I had two so called friends like that...and guess what?? They didn't make the wedding cut. So now they can hear all about the wonderful time we are going to have...read all about it on facebook..LOL. Hang in there girl!

[karenk77]

Chelsea you're 100% right..i havent said anything and i wont..not worth it. I am going to keep my distance because i have a tendency when im excited to want to share everything i have like diarhea of the mouth..and to share it when its with someone that doesnt care to hear it i rather save my breathe and just harrass my mom lmao

[cougs]

Quote:

Originally Posted by karenk77 hey i guess im more important then i thought lol

this cracked me up! yeah, i guess you ARE!

[~*Kathy*~]

ohhh Karen, I SO get it! I'm the same, I'm a very giving person in relationships and friendships and I really want everyone to be happy (which is next to impossible of course) and I'm really sad/frustrated when I can't make everyone happy, ya know? It's a horrible, vicious circle for me and I let it bother me when I shouldn't, but what are ya gonna do?

[karenk77]

sigh i feel you!!! boy do i feel you..maybe were the same sign? you a capricorn? lol

[karenk77]

you are all so right and thank you! I am so much less angry now, no need to go find them and poke them in the eye with my stiletto lol

I'll just keep checkin out our wedding website to cheer myself up lol

[~*Kathy*~]

nah I'm a Libra sun, Leo moon and Leo rising...I'm about ten kinds of astrologically-facked up

[karenk77]

oh i know alllll about it..my fi is a libra too..you guys are special people boy and thats all im going to say lol