Monogram Etiquette....?

[OchieBride]

I did a bit more digging and I guess it makes sense. Essentially they are saying: prior to the actual ceremony you don't use the monogram that has your married last name or initial. You would use one that just your first names. Then on pieces taht come after the ceremony..(menu cards etc) you can use the monogram that has your married last name. Appearently its a bad omen...I don't believe in omens though but the logic makes sense and I guess thisis why these designers sell the designs in packs of three. SO you cna use different ones at various points

[OchieBride]

Totally agree with you Jen! I'm so not a fan of rules

[whitechocolate]

I guess it makes sense, but at the same time all the parts of your wedding are to celebrate you *becoming* this one entity, represented by your monogram...so I can see going either way