So what is proper?

[MsShelley]

My fiance says it is ok to see my dress, as long as it's not on me... I say that he can't see it at all.

[CourtneyV]

No! Tell him to bugger off!!! lol I wouldn't want Aaron to see my dress before the wedding day.... heck I don't even tell him where I go shopping - just in case! lol.

[Christine]

I haven't shown mine the dress at all. I did let him look through a dress catalog so he could show me what he liked, but I think the first time he see's my dress at all should be when I walk down the aisle, but I think its whatever you feel comfortable with.

[MikkiStreak]

I, personally, don't want FI to see the dress at all because I want the complete surprise reaction when he sees me in it for the first time. But knowing me, my enthusiasm may get the best of me and I'll wind up showing him anyway...

[LisaG]

Heck no!! I let mine look through a magazine to show me what he likes, but that's IT. He keeps asking what it looks like and I tell him to bug off too!! Don't let him see it!

[RaydensMama]

NO WAY!!!! Its suposed to be a huge suprise seeing your bride walking down the isle! Dont let him see it!!

[BEACHBRIDEMA]

no he cant see it at all

Sarah

[*JillD*]

NO! It should be a surprise when he sees you in it for the first time!

[TammyB]

Cain, knew what color my dress was, and that it wasn't a bell type dress, and that's it. We both wanted to keep it a surprise.

[Rachelle E.]

So uhhh...just in case you were wondering, we don't think he should see it! LoL!

 

Honestly though, stick to your guns and tell him "no!" :-) David was curious about my dress, but he said that he really had fun with the whole surprise of it all. He preferred not to see it in advance. Not that I would have let him anyway. . . haha!