MOH Backing Out!!!

[YoursTruly]

oh wow! sorry you are going through all this! you will find that those whom you thought would be there for you flake out and those that not so high expectations surprise you! Wish you the best...

[KarenM]

I'm so sorry you're going through this, but I really think you have the right attitude about it all. You're right - the ball is in her court and she needs to let you know either way rather than letting this drag on. You've generously offered her assistance (much more than I would have!) but if she's too proud to accept your help then what can you do? It may be the money it may be the flight time, or it could be something else. In any event, you can't read her mind or fix this without her meeting you half-way. I hope she has the decency to speak to you in person about this; I think she owes you that much at the very least regardless of her reasons.

 

Keep the focus on all that's positive about planning your wedding -- like finding your gorgeous dress & veil! And let us know what happens.

[finzup]

Sorry you're going through this.. it's a tough situation. I think you are being very gracious by offering to help her pay for the airfare. Hopefully she is just taking some time to think it over. Maybe if she is too proud to accept your offer you could tell her that she could pay you back at a later date? It might make her feel better to not be taking money from you?

[LIW]

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I can't really offer any new advice, but take it one day at a time and hopefully everything will work out for the best. However, just remember, at the end the of the day you will be spending time in paradise with the man of your dreams. Enjoy your wedding!