destination vs. at home reception question

[jlink78]

Hi All -

I'm getting ready to print my save the dates up and am having a similar problem. We've decided to invite everyone to our DW at Dreams,Cancun and are actually anticipating a lot of people attending based on word of mouth responses. Our original thought was that we'd have an AHR upon our return but now we're thinking we'd like to wait and see what the response is to the save the dates. Do you guys think we need to decide on the AHR thing prior to sending out the STDs and including the AHR info on them? Or do you think I can wait and see how many people make travel arrangements and then include the AHR info on the formal invites that go out (if we decide to have one)? Basically I don't want to wind up having an AHR if all the important people in our lives are able to join us in Cancun.

 

Any thoughts are greatly appreciated!

 

Also, did anyone include AHR info on their STDs? If so how did you word it?

 

Thanks!

[MikkiStreak]

jlink78:

I don't think you have to have the AHR figured out right now. We aren't sure if we're doing an AHR after we get back or not. But I think if we decide to have one, we'll invite everyone to the wedding in Mexico without mentioning the AHR. The AHR would be probably 2-3 months after we return anyways and once we see what our actual responses are for the wedding, we'll probably send an "Announcement" with invitiation to the AHR to those who arent' able to attend the wedding.