Ashley Simpson and Pete Wentz....

[tylersgirl]

I am with you on that Megan!

[Jess]

I TOTALLY agree with you girls Megan and Des

[Chanti]

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Originally Posted by Soon To Be Mrs. Gomez I was only 22 when I got married the 1st time and it was awful because I allowed my ex-husband to basically control me and as I evolved, I did not allow this so it caused lots of friction and led to divorce. Thinking back, I wish I would have never got married that young but I guess it depends on each person's personality. My new marriage is great so far because we are both over 30 and are more mature. Hopefully Ashlee will work through issues.

Ditto Michelle! Same story as mine basically. I'm hoping the second time around is better :-)
Chantal

[aimee!]

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Originally Posted by paraisobeachbride2009 I agree with the girls, I think the age doesn't matter so much as the maturity. If you're ready and you think you can handle it then I say go for it! DH's parents got married when his mom was 17 and his dad was 21 and they're still together and in their 50s now. Aimee - I didn't know you are already legally married, congrats!

thanks! i was married when i first joined the forum- sneaky right? we were married right after i graduated (Dec 2007, married in Jan) & moved to madison, wi for my "real" job. at that point we'd been engaged for about a month, so everyone thought i was pregnant. silly family! but we just wanted to tie the knot before moving in together & save up for a fantastic party in Mexico. plus it was a nice bonus to start my career with my married name-- it's a hard thing to get used to... i still forget sometimes. lol.

[Jacqueline]

hmm what a good question. i lean more toward what megan said. i thought i was going to marry my bf at 25 and now look! and also like meg's parents, my parents (whos 37th wedding anniversary is today btw!) got married "young"and had all three of us kids before they were 30. so things moved fast and they are still in love soooo i guess it depends on the people involved.

 

ya know what it is imo- people give up too fast and dont try to save their marriages like they used too. maybe people didnt divorce back then b/c it was frowned upon but to me, divorce is just a "word" these days and taken too lightly. not that i think everyone should stay together, but hopefully you got what im saying. if i made any sense, lol.

[~*Kathy*~]

Aimee - All very good points as I'm finding out the hard way that changing to my married name at work was not as easy as I thought it would be! lol