Will I be a bridezilla if...

[Sandra&Mario]

when i first started reading this thread i thought it was a joke! i guess it's not. i personally would NEVER write up a contract or sign one. if true friendships exist, contracts shouldn't. period. perhaps you're having "shady" bridesmaids in your wedding. clearly you suspect someone or something. so, don't include them. if one of your bridesmaids decides last minute that she no longer wants to be in your wedding, what is contract going to do? give you back some cash? in the end, the friendship isn't there. to me, that's most important. contracts are for business purposes for those you don't know...like your florist or DJ...not your friends who you CHOSE to be part of one of the most important days of your life...

[lgarner83]

I agree with most everyone else. Please please please don't do the contract. You will really embarass yourself. Seriously.

[*Nadine*]

I hope you end up doing what you think is best for you. You know what kind of friend you are, and more importnatly your friends know you and what kind of friend you are. Noone else knows that so its impossible for anyone else to judge the situation without knowing you personally.