how do I get over his ex?

[*Jen* OPPRN]

Hey Josie - well I have to say first off you are the cutest couple - and he is likely breathing a sigh of relief that you don't shop or anything else that could leave him in debt again...My FI is the same - he was left with a load of debt that she had incurred - but the there was alot of joint stuff that he got left with - guh - anyway - I think you likely are comparing yourself to one of those Paris Hilton type girls? Slutty and useless?? LOL - This helps me realize how stupid I have been in thinking about the ex I have to deal with...

[JOSIE]

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Originally Posted by *Jen* OPPRN Hey Josie - well I have to say first off you are the cutest couple - and he is likely breathing a sigh of relief that you don't shop or anything else that could leave him in debt again...My FI is the same - he was left with a load of debt that she had incurred - but the there was alot of joint stuff that he got left with - guh - anyway - I think you likely are comparing yourself to one of those Paris Hilton type girls? Slutty and useless?? LOL - This helps me realize how stupid I have been in thinking about the ex I have to deal with...

Jen- HAHA! This made me laugh out loud!! I think writing my feelings on here and hearing what everyone else had to say made a huge difference for me. Reading it over again makes me realize Jason and most men would be counting their blessings and she can't compare to me. Even though I KNEW that, I was just taught a lesson in self security. Thanks for the sweet comments Truly Appreciated!