AHR drama!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[islandbride317]

Ugghh! What a mess! Sorry to hear that something that is supposed to celebrate your wedding has become so muddied with scheduling drama!

 

That, my friends, is why we've decided on NOT having any bridesmaids/groomsmen!

 

Wishing you luck and lots of hugs!

Christie

[GarlicBride]

I think you need to go right back and consider why you decided to have an AHR in the first place. Is it for family reasons (the grandparents feature in your earlier post), people who couldn't be there for the real thing (close family of good friend of groom), celebrating with colleagues (fella's platoon) or something entirely different? If it's all of the above which is the most important?

 

Look at those reasons and decide which of the options you have is most true to those aims and go with that. It is the one you'll be able to live with afterwards and you'll be able to honestly tell people why you made the decisions you made.

 

Whatever you choose to do in the end will be the right decision.

 

Hannah