What's the rule?

[saltocoach]

I've invited only 25 couples to the wedding in Cabo. We plan on having a big AHR shortly after we get back. The problem is my MoH wants to throw a shower and stagette and needs a guest list from me. Do I invite everyone, including the AHR guests or only the Mexico guests. Most of the AHR guests are work related friends/employees and I didn't want to invite them to Mexico because I know that they couldn't get the time off (I'm a mean boss!). What's the rule?

[Soon To Be Mrs. Gomez]

I think if you are going to invite most peolpe to AHR then they should be on shower list.