Tired of Hearing this! ARG!

[kiki317]

Mine is on a Wednesday (same week as your's actually, only this year) and i had people tell me "well we would have come if it wasn't on a wednesday!" which is BS anyway- they were jsut looking for an excuse to get out of coming.

 

don't worry about it- i stressed so much over this whole thing and it is just not worth it- you're never going to make everyone happy.

[YoursTruly]

I am not sure why it matters when folks are on vacation as everyone else has said. Carry on with your plans (lol).

[kris]

This is too funny! I read this post yesterday and I thought to myself...nobody has asked me that. Not even 5 minutes after I got asked...haha what the hell..why does it matter? Mine is on a wednesday...It's not like people have to work the next day ...the whole week is a weekend!

[big3n09]

How rude to make a negative comment about the date someone chose for their wedding. If you were having it at home in the evening would it be a problem, they would either come or not come. Please don't change your date to accomodate anyone else.

[lil_miss_frogg]

I am so glad that you girls are here. I was very close to changing my date....but after thinking about it and reading your posts...I am going to keep it. Screw them...if they don't want to come...so be it...their loss!

[BachataBride]

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Originally Posted by lil_miss_frogg I am so glad that you girls are here. I was very close to changing my date....but after thinking about it and reading your posts...I am going to keep it. Screw them...if they don't want to come...so be it...their loss!

Good for you!!! You go girl!!

[GracieBebe]

Our wedding date is on a Wednesday also, but we rarely get those questions. Since our DW is in Europe, you kinda have to go for at least a week anyways to make it worth while so most people thought it made sense to have it on a weekday. The only time anyone asks us is if they don't realize that we are having a DW.

[sunset78]

It shouldn't matter at all if the wedding on a weekday or weekend... it's a DW anyway, maybe if it was local then I could see it moreso for a weekend. Some people just look for something to complain about.

[nicmicj]

I have had those same complaints because my wedding is on a Tuesday morning at 10am (before it gets too hot). I chose to have it during the week because of costs, we are going to have it in Las Vegas and it is cheaper during the weekdays - THINKING ABOUT MY GUESTS AND THEIR COSTS! That's what I get for trying to be considerate of the costs the will have to pay. But everyone has really gotten over it at this point, they will probably come Monday and leave Wednesday which will give them 2 more days to work that week if they choose too!

[lil_miss_frogg]

I too was thinking of the costs. Especially in May...a big tourist month....everything is cheaper during the week. I was seriously thinking about changing the date....I'm glad you girls talked me out of it. People can get over it and come or not come...I don't care at this point...I just want the people that want to be there to be there.