sex or no sex? that is the question!?

[RaydensMama]

I know a lot of people do this. My DH and I lived together for 4 years before we married but we didnt abstaine before the wedding, just the night before the wedding. I think you should do whatever feels right to you.

[soccergurl3]

Me and my fiance have been living together for 3 years and we actually want to go 100 days without any! I know that seems like a long time and sadly we will probably give in My worry is that if you abstain for that long one of us might actually get a lower sex drive because of it and that is NOT what I want at all. So I think a month is more realistic!

[jax_the_beach_bride]

SLIPPED UP!!!!

 

last night FI and I went out with a bunch of friends... ended up getting pretty intoxicated... and one thing led to another and (i call it my wedding virginity) i lost my wedding virginity.. i was actually kinda sad.. so im not sure if we should try to start it again.. or just accept the fact that we cant keep our hands off of eachother!

[Hartyt509]

Lol give up cause you'll only do it again lol

[inunez]

i agree...my FI have actually already spoken about this. i told him i would like to have some time for us to be "off" of it. we just haven't agreed on how much time yet. we're also not sleeping in the same room when we get to the resort until the wedding nite. i think it's a lot more exciting that way. i ahven't thought of the whole "self gratifcation" idea though...lol. thats kind of funny! i think my FI would kill me if i add that "rule!"

[jax_the_beach_bride]

we have decided that when the wedding ticker says exactly one month... thats when we are going to start it up again.. lol .. so we have one week and one day to get it all out of our system til the wedding night wish me luck this time!!! HAHAHA

[Susan'n'Dean]

lol that made me chuckle.

 

Originally Posted by jax_the_beach_bride 

we have decided that when the wedding ticker says exactly one month... thats when we are going to start it up again.. lol .. so we have one week and one day to get it all out of our system til the wedding night wish me luck this time!!! HAHAHA