sex or no sex? that is the question!?

[jax_the_beach_bride]

Ok, so take this tread how ever you want to take it... my fiance and i have been living together for almost two years... and getting married in just under 6 weeks...

 

... what do u ladies think about abstaining after you have already been active with your partner until the wedding night? Has anyone done this...

 

everyone's opinions are welcome.. i know this is a strange thread but im thinking about it and wondering what everyone else thinks

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[YoursTruly]

no it is not strange..soe people do this in order to create a sense of anticipation and newness entering into the marriage. If this works for you (some men wouldabsolutely not go for it), then by all means do it!

[trance_angelx0x]

ohh i thought this thread was going a totally different way so I closed my door to make sure no one would know I'm reading this.. hehehe

 

Definetly go for it if both of you agree. I've known people who've done this and they said it was worth it.

[tylersgirl]

I have heard of this and I don't think it is weird! Go for it if you want!

[Mishi]

My husband and I did that and it made it soooo much more intense! Just make sure... because you know men are thickheaded, lol, that you put the rule in there to include self gratification too! I know that sounds silly but if its been a while it makes it all that much better!

[YoursTruly]

no it is not strange..some people do this in order to create a sense of anticipation and newness entering into the marriage. If this works for you (some men wouldabsolutely not go for it), then by all means do it!

[big3n09]

I say go for it, I believe it will help the anticipation and make it that much more or gratifying.

[lil_miss_frogg]

Ohhhhhhh......good thread. I would have to say go for it if you can come to an agreement of the length of time to do this.

 

Question I have is what is a proper amount of time to be 'cut off' from it? Six weeks....I'm sorry, maybe I'm a nymph, but that seems like a looooonnnnnggggg time to me. LOL. But I guess if you're used to getting it every night and stop for a month and a half.....wooooooweeeee, watch out to the people next door to the Honeymoon suite!

[JaimeLynne]

I think there was a thread about this awhile ago...

 

but yeah, people definitely do this.

 

If you want to, go for it!

[Soon To Be Mrs. Gomez]

I think it would be fun because you will be really excited on yor wedding night.