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I guess I never really thought about because I just assumed we would stay apart. Tammy, I really loved what you guys did in the morning. That sounds amazing. However, my FI really wants to play golf the day of the wedding...HA! I know where I stand..hehe! Anyway, I think we'll stay apart only because I want to feel that excitment of not seeing him all day and the first time we meet eyes is when I walk down the aisle. Plus, all my girls wanted to have a little slumber party in one of their rooms.

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I totally agree it depends on the couple. We are staying apart, I am staying with all the girls. It reall isn't my first choice, I would rather stay together, but FI is so traditional he does not want us to see each other at all on the wedding day so our first time will be when I am walking down the aisle.

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Hanna- i feel exactly the same way- i feel like i will be so nervous and not sleep if he's not with me. We plan on having room service delivered for breaksfast then having a couples masseage then saying goodbye until the ceremony (it starts at 5- so we'll miss each other anough by then)

 

good luck deciding!! :)

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We've been together for almost 4 years, have lived together for at least 2 years. We will be in Mexico 4 nights before the wedding and are staying in separate rooms until the wedding night. Like someone else has said, it is more to buil up the anticipation and to go with tradition. This was my choise though, no one gave me their opinions that we should or shouldn't do it that way.

 

Good luck!

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We stayed apart... DH really wanted it that way - I stayed with my brother, DH went out with his friends for his 30th birthday celebration. The next morning I had breakfast with my girls, and we went on with our day. I think it is completely your choice... It was actually really fun hanging with my brother for the night.

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Thank you guys so much for your opinions. It is so hard when it gets to these details... I felt pretty good about staying the night together then parting ways after breakfast, but it can be so hard when you have people in the wedding party tell you otherwise... It is always so reassuring to hear all of your opinions. I see it both ways, so I guess whatever is best for the couple individually. I appreciate your support :)

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