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[Erika J]

Wow Stacey- i am so impressed how well you have pulled this all together, I mean you have done so much!

[Solidshan83]

Hi Girls, I have been married since 6/26/09. I know I am a new bride but I wanted to comment too I was so excited for the wedding at Azul Sensatori, and it was PERFECT. Not just because it was my day...but it REALLY WAS. I am SO over all of the wedding planning. I am working on my sister's wedding now. She gets married in November. I really hate planning wedding after how long and stressful mine was, but I'm trying to stay happy and help out where I can. My husband and I just bought a condo. We wanted to buy a house but it's just so crazy with all the money we spent on the wedding it's nearly impossibly to come up with all the settlement money. Basically since the wedding has been over we have been dealing with the condo stuff non-stop. I am wondering at what point do things calm down and I can enjoy the marriage. Any advise?

[Andi]

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Originally Posted by Kristy! OK, I've decided that Andi, Erika, Yael, and Stacey just follow each other around on this forum! Not much to update in my life. I feel like I'm going through a job crisis. I can't figure out what I want to do that will keep me happy for more than 2 years! What I do know is that I am not happy right now and life is too short to feel this way! I cannot believe how many babies are going to be born soon on BDW! Congrats to all the soon-to-be mommies!

oh Kristy you figured us out! hee hee hee

On the job crisis front...wow girl I seriously feel the same way. I hate my job right now but I am honestly not sure what I want to do where I can make at least comparable to what I make now. we are not in any sort of financial situation either for us to only have one income while I figure it out. So I feel your pain! I really just want to quit my job but need a backup in place first

[YaelM]

Kristy - I so know what you are going through! Im in such a career limbo. I LOVED my job in boston and it would def have been a long time career for me, but then DH wanted to move to Cali (where i grew up) and now my job is just whatever. I mean i love being back here with family, friends and awesome weather but i miss the sense of pride i had with my old job

 

Stacey - wow YAY things are moving along so fast for u We will need to get a celebratory drink once u have your space

 

Shannon - hi! Im an early bride too - got married liek a week before you Congrats on the condo. I have no read advice since after the wedding our lives went back to normal since we will never be able to afford a house where we live LOL.

[stacey]

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Originally Posted by Erika J Wow Stacey- i am so impressed how well you have pulled this all together, I mean you have done so much!

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Originally Posted by YaelM Stacey - wow YAY things are moving along so fast for u We will need to get a celebratory drink once u have your space

Thanks girls, I really have been working 7 days a week. I work my real job and then come home and do work on the other business. I keep telling myself if will all be worth it in the end.

Yael, Congrats on the name chnage!

[YaelM]

Thanks Stacey!!

 

It will be worth it!!!

[Andi]

Stacey - I am pretty sure you said this already...ugh sorry it is probably a repeat...but how many more classes do you have to go to for the makeup stuff?

[stacey]

Andi, I will do 20 hours this weekend and then Im done!

[Erika J]

I am so happy for you Stacey, It is pretty neat that you will also be learning a ton about the Salon business and you can help Ely also when he is done!

 

So one of my friends called me 2 weeks ago and told me should could not make my wedding because her dad has cancer. I did not want to pry and find out what kind and stuff cause I could tell she was very upset.

 

So then I see my other friend and she was like did you know E got engaged and I was like NO, mind you this was Thurs. So I called her and left her a voicemail saying congrats, then today on her FB it says she is marriedWTF

[stacey]

Erika, thats really bizzar. Im sorry she is being a bad comunicator with you.