Is it poor etiquette?

[estella1007]

You guys are so great! Thank you so much. You all really put my mind at ease. I was getting myself all anxious about adding these extra things to my list, and adding the extra money to the budget. I feel much better now!

[August2010Bride]

I was doing the EXACT same thing... try to add this, squeeze this in...

 

I learned like a lot of ladies have said. Not everything is mandatory. Its your day, only include what you want.

[nibsmom]

I'm glad you feel better! I remember when I first joined this forum, I was really overwhelmed by how elaborate some of the weddings were too...and I started feeling really pressured to do more and more. But, in the long run, we've decided it's our wedding and we can do what we want...I just pick and choose among the ideas! I've definitely added a few things like monogrammed cups, OOT bags, welcome dinner and TTD, but I've also decided that bringing tons of decorations and having a formal reception aren't necessary.

 

I just write every idea down, then come back to it after a bit...it usually helps me get some perspective and think about whether I really want it or not!

[nibsmom]

Whoops! Double Post!

[Tamster808]

It is YOUR wedding! Do what you want!!!

I did luggage tags but in hindsight I don't think I should have done them. They wound up costing alot more than I thought they would.

Don't stress out that you are not doing all these things. Your guest will not even notice.

 

IT IS YOUR DAY!!!!!!!!!!!

[LAURENANDBILL]

its your special day!! you do what makes you happy!!! im not doing oot bags or programs.. i just dont want any more things to do