New dress or keep the one I have

[cantwait2718]

Here is my first dress

 

and here is the second dress

 

[BachataBride]

Oh no...they are not there!!! Please repost!!

[cantwait2718]

Ok trying this again

 

second dress

 

 

first dress

 

[CdnBeatPrincess]

I like the #2 one, detailing is pretty.

[BachataBride]

Oh...I like both!! I would have to see them on you to give the best opinion I think, but right now I think I like your second choice (the first dress posted).

[litl_april]

Ooh, that second dress is GORGEOUS! I can see why you love it! Go with what you feel. Like the other girls have said...I do believe that you have to go with what you love. I tried so hard to go with a "destination" style dress but just wasn't feeling it in them. When I put on the dress I went with...I just felt perfect. I've had doubts, still thinking I should go with the flowy, beachy dress...but when I put it back on at the seamstress's shop...I still just knew it was right. If you feel that what is right is the second one, go for it on selling the first.

[Virg]

SO MANY OF US DO THIS!!

 

I fell victon do it too!! I bought a dress, quite early thought I loved it. But I loved the experience of dress shopping and got caught up in the emotions of everyone else....

 

So then I ended up trying on a dress when my BM went shopping and then I KNEW I found MY DRESS.

Within a week I had sold the 1st one (for purchased price) and ordered MY DRESS!!!

 

I cannot wait to put it on when it gets here on April 1st!!

[Virg]

OMG your first dress looks almost like my second!

[BillysBride]

I think it's important for a bride to be absolutely in love with her gown.

 

NOW, that being said, it's not the same as having to go with the one you find that is expensive, but you love. If you can't find anything else that you ADORE other than the hugely expensive one? Then go for it. The most important thing being that you must love that damn dress! lol

 

If you have time, look...look and look again. I think the fact that you are even questioning whether to get rid of the first dress is very telling. Sell it. Let it go and keep looking for another. I see you're getting married in November, so do some intensive searching over the next couple of months, but give yourself a deadline. Maybe you can find another, less expensive dress that you fall in love with and makes your maids cry. But..maybe you can't. In which case, you can still order the expensive one after you've sold the other.

 

I'm a two dress bride. I let a dress hang in my closet for two months before realizing that I did not love it, would not love it and didn't WANT to love it even though it is a gorgeous gown and everyone thought it looked great on me. It's about how I feel in it and how I'll feel when it's over...I'm not taking any chances. I didn't order the gown that I FIRST fell in love with (that was CRAZY expensive) but I did shop around til I found one that I DO absolutely adore and I know I'll love it forever.

[BillysBride]

double posts!