Just need to get this off my chest.. **Long**

[YoursTruly]

It sounds like respectfully, your mom will always remind you of what she has done--and for tha I would decline the house offer OR buy her out of what ever they paid. Gifts are just that a gift , not a burden. As for your dad, talk it over and see what he would be comfortable with. I hope evrything works out and in an odd way--you are blessed that you have people willin and able to help you and your FI out financially.

[Ana]

I feel terrible that you're in this situation. The best thing is to be honest with everyone and encourage them to be honest with eachother as well. Michael and I had some similar issues, and we just decided to pay for anything extra ourselves.