Guest wearing their wedding dress

[MsShelley]

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Originally Posted by Alyssa that is pyschotic!!!! what a freak OMG i think you should send an email to all your guests letting them know that a few people asked you for a dress code so you and Francis put one together... make sure it says "please refrain from wearing white..." blah blah seriously if you do it let me know and i will help you write it what a f---king loser

I love the please refrain from wearing white email!

[Chiquita]

Me too! That is a great idea!

[Banana11]

What a freak!!!! I totally agree with Becks and Alyssa...either spill red wine on her dress or send a pre-wedding dress code email. You could say you've been asked what the dress code is and wanted to send an email to the group to make it easier for everyone. Throw in there no shades of white please.

[aimee!]

ugh! what a dumbass.

 

i think the email is a great idea, and then if she pulls her "do it anyway to piss you off" crap at least every other guest will know that it was common knowledge to NOT wear white, and maybe they'll give her a hard time.

 

otherwise maybe we can arrange something so that the dress disappears from her closet. hmm...

[sunset78]

That's just insane. Who in heck wears their wedding dress to someone else's wedding? Man, there are some real winners out there...

 

The email is a great idea! And if not, the red wine splashed on her dress is even better too!

[Jess]

oh my - definitely not cool at all!!! Talk to your mom and maybe she can be the one to tell her not to wear it?

[FutureMrsLewis]

I can be a bit of a $hit disturber sometimes, so I would send the e-mail about the dress code and put in a big line about no white or anything even close, and if she STILL wore it at the wedding, then while I was saying my thank-yous at the reception/supper, I'd add in "And I'd like to thank everyone for making my day so perfect, and sticking to the dress code. Well, MOST of us anyway" and make her feel like crap lol But that's because, as I said, I'm a $hit disturber lol

[IslamoradaBride]

Wow, that's unbelievable! Too bad you can't uninvite her. I do agree with everyone saying it will make her look like a foolish attention whore. How bizarre!

 

I remember reading somewhere that author Plum Sykes, who is a triplet, wearing her wedding dress-- dyed black-- to one of her sisters' weddings. Even weirder is that Plum's wedding had been called off! So self-involved.

[Erika J]

OK.. wait.. what is wrong with this person!!!!!!!!??!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I agree with emails on dress codes and accidental red wine/ strawberry margarita spills.

 

But ultimatly, you will be the glowing, beautiful bride at your wedding that have been maticulously planning and she will just be the IDIOT in a wedding dress at someone else's wedding. (and at least half or more of you guests will know it)

 

Good Luck Sister, she sounds like a full wack job!

[Sloan]

I dont care what your wedding dress looks like.. why the HELL would you wear it to someone else's wedding? And why would you wear it if you knew there would be a guest present that saw you in that dress at your wedding I wouldnt even wear the same normal dress to 2 different weddings, let alone my own wedding dress. Personally Id tell her to quit being an ass and to give her head a shake, sensitive or not. I wish everyone could have normal brain chemistry and not be complete pyschopaths when it comes to weddings.