Wedding after thoughts...

[A10CalGal]

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Originally Posted by akh yikes. i was scanning the posts i hadn't read yet, and read this title wrong, i read it as "wedding 2nd thoughts" - i was like OH CRAP! when i looked to see who started it, i was like - uh oh, she's already married and having second thoughts. i was so relieved when i realized i had read it wrong. WHEW! anyway - great post. really puts things into perspective for everyone. thanks!

Holy Crap Ann! Stop multi-tasking already!

[LCBride2007]

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Originally Posted by A10CALGAL Holy Crap Ann! Stop multi-tasking already!

seriously. but i'd have to give up the forum or work to do that. lord knows i can't give up the forum. and i have to work to pay for the wedding (and the house!). i say we all stop working, and just come up w/a barter system. we have a large enough group w/varied skills, we could do it. i will program anyone's computer in exchange for something else, like Tammy could provide my real estate services, and be my travel agent, and I could be her IT support. i can clean pretty well, and then trade that for, let's say, Sarah's nursing skills when i have a baby. we could make this work, really.

[A10CalGal]

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Originally Posted by akh seriously. but i'd have to give up the forum or work to do that. lord knows i can't give up the forum. and i have to work to pay for the wedding (and the house!). i say we all stop working, and just come up w/a barter system. we have a large enough group w/varied skills, we could do it. i will program anyone's computer in exchange for something else, like Tammy could provide my real estate services, and be my travel agent, and I could be her IT support. i can clean pretty well, and then trade that for, let's say, Sarah's nursing skills when i have a baby. we could make this work, really.

Haha...omg you are cracking me up. OK, well I could do your bookkeeping and taxes if you'll clean my house. And Glenda could be very useful with her legal services, keeping us all out of trouble and what not. But, um, what do we do for food?

[LCBride2007]

crap. there are plenty of ladies on here that like to cook. we're going to need someone to own a farm though.

[A10CalGal]

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Originally Posted by akh crap. there are plenty of ladies on here that like to cook. we're going to need someone to own a farm though.

My mom has a farm. She'll have to ramp up her production of organic veggies. Right now she just grows enough for herself.....ok, I can see this coming together now

[LCBride2007]

perfect. and if we do need extra $$ we can always just use our skills as wedding planners, decorators, Martha Stewarts, etc. to see wedding items.

[A10CalGal]

Umm, I'll just grow pot to raise money, that's much easier. LOL!

[CourtneyV]

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Originally Posted by A10CALGAL Umm, I'll just grow pot to raise money, that's much easier. LOL!

Hahaha, seriously.... laughing so hard, I'm crying!!

[Nrvsbride]

Christa thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. You sound so truly happy and that makes me happy. I really am so glad that everything worked out perfectly for you. It's nice to see people's hardwork and planning come together for a special event. I especially loved reading the part about cementing your new family.

 

As far as the barter society I am so in!! Maybe our DH can be our army to protect us from foreign enemies. LOL. Or they could just do all the physical work.

 

-Glenda

[annkaley]

Christa,

I really enjoyed hearing your reflections on your wedding...I am so happy for you that everything turned out so wonderfully...like a dream come true!