Gift from couple...who have now broken up!

[anaderoux]

I have a slightly different opinion, but maybe because here in Mexico we don't expect thank you cards for gifts.. I think that sending her the thank you card would just remind her all the drama when maybe she's working on forgetting about it..

 

That would be my only concern..

[MelissaH]

Here's some more drama....my sister went on a date with him last night!

[Debs]

Holy crap! HAHAHA!! That's nuts! Were they living together and everything? Wow.

 

I'd send him the thank you with an enclosed dog collar! HAHAHAHA!!!!

[MelissaH]

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Originally Posted by Debs Holy crap! HAHAHA!! That's nuts! Were they living together and everything? Wow. I'd send him the thank you with an enclosed dog collar! HAHAHAHA!!!!

LOL too funny

They weren't living together - thank God!! Could you imagine?

[TammyWright]

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Originally Posted by mexicomelissa Here's some more drama....my sister went on a date with him last night!

since he is now single..i dont see a problem with that...

[MelissaH]

I don't understand it though - she saw how he treated this girl all week and she still goes out with him?

[TammyWright]

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Originally Posted by mexicomelissa I don't understand it though - she saw how he treated this girl all week and she still goes out with him?

i know...i'd be a little leery but my DH was the biggest player before we met...he is in a band and used to model so he had a ton og groupies...he had not had a gf for 8 years before me because he was too busy playing the field. when he asked me to be his gf and started introducing me to his friends as his gf, people were freaking out...i remember i befriended a girl in his social circle and she admitted that all these girls were wondering who i was and what i did to him...(lots of bj's... )

so i guy can change if he finds the right girl

[Jessica]

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Originally Posted by host since he is now single..i dont see a problem with that...

i don't think it's a problem per se, but if that was my sister, i'd be a little weary. i mean as nice as this guy is, he still did a really crappy thing and therefore revealed he has the potential to be a jerk again at some point.

i don't know how long he was together with his ex, but personally if a guy hit on me while with some other chick, and then dumped her in such a manner, i don't think i'd be in a big rush to go on a date with him.

but eh, to each their own.

[SarahMc]

I'd definitely send two thank you's - as someone else pointed out she probably bought the gift. If you are sort of friends with her too, it might be good/helpful for her to know you haven't totally dropped her because of what her ex did. I'd watch out for your sister too, if he dumped someone on a trip to Mexico for a wedding, he seems like he might have the potential to do something not so nice to your sister (even if he is a generally nice guy). Sorry, don't mean to sound b*tchy about a friend of yours, but it kind of reminds me of guys who drop their girlfriends at prom at high school, not too mature.

[destinationbride07]

I would send them each a thank you card