OK...so how bad could "different" be?

[*Casey*]

What about a compromise? Maybe he could pick out 3 of his favorite looks, then you could pick the one out of those... This way yall would both have a say and he can feel like he's getting to wear what he wants! How bad is it?

[montegobay09]

I also like the idea of picking out numerous looks that you like and showing him the pics. My FI is not very good at picturing things so I've learned that before I suggest something to him I need to have a visual. I really wanted him to wear a sky blue linen shirt with white pants and sandals. When I showed him the pics I had found he was 100% on board. I'm sure you'll both find something that can make you happy and comfortable at the same time. Good luck! btw I love the pirate idea for the wedding night and/or the TTD pics!!