Bestfriend or Sister as MOH?

[latinalocany]

Such a hard descision!! i've been a punk trying to avoid! my sister and I are sooo close, she is like my best friend too and my best friend she is like my sister!!!! who do I pick??

[becks]

Any chance one is married and the other not? Then you can have a maid and a matron of honor. Problem solved!

 

On the other hand, if it's just the two of them standing with you, then why designate either? Just call them both bridesmaids and that would be good enough.

[kate.com]

You can have to maid of honors too... or none which makes everyone equal. Otherwise, sisters always trump friends. Period.

[Bianca]

My sister chose her friend over me for her MOH... but that was bc I was only 18, so I couldn't really handle the duties involved (like the bridal shower, bachlorette, etc...)

[DanielleNDerek]

I think if you want 2 than do it. Screw the rulz. If you have to choose i would go with your sister especially if you are really close with her. Blood over water kinda thing

[latinalocany]

they are both married. this is driving me crazy so i just might take your advice and have 2!!!

[~*Kathy*~]

I would just make the both MOHs or have none at all. I like to avoid confrontation though haha. Good luck!

[RosieM]

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Originally Posted by becks On the other hand, if it's just the two of them standing with you, then why designate either? Just call them both bridesmaids and that would be good enough.

I second that. Then no hurt feelings.

[samanthag]

I think you should have 2!

Then again, I think if I had a sister I'd pick my sister?!

I know I'm no help at all!

I'm having a hard time deciding about my brother. We are super close and I just think "groomsmen" isn't enough??

[**~Jenn~**]

The Best part about having a Destination Wedding is, You don't have to follow the "traditional" rules!! Make them both your MOH...I think it'll be what makes you the happiest!! :-)