Oh My F*cking God

[DanielleNDerek]

Forget the effing bitch even exists. Enjoy yourself and remember that she is out numbered. Dont for one second let her get to you.

I am soooooo excited for you to be leaving and getting hitched!

[becks]

So, she has a reservation at the hotel, right? I've got $5 that says there's no plane ticket and she's just got the res to mess with you and set it up so that you'd find out.

 

Talk to your WC and make sure she knows that there's a potential problem - make sure the psycho doesn't have a room overlooking the wedding or reception sites (just to be sure), and go from there.

 

My best guess is that she cancels the res right before the deadline.

[*Casey*]

Do you know what her excuse for going is? Certainly it can't be just to spite you. Or is she actually that EVIL?

[Jen_S]

Oh My!!! Who in the right mind would do that, well obviously she is NOT!!!

[*Lo*]

THAT IS ABSOLUTELY OUTRAGEOUS!!!

Who does that? Seriously.

 

People do crazy things when they are upset. She clearly felt she needed to get back at you. Which is immature. Even if she doesn't do anything at your wedding, she knows that just by going there it will upset you.

[ErinB]

Stacey, I'm so sorry she's putting you through this.

 

I say ignore her completely. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing she upset you.

 

Kill her with kindness if you run into her at the resort. If she does try to do something, she will definietly look like she is in the wrong (which she is), I think it was mentioned before, but I would tell the WC to tell security to keep her away from your ceremony and reception.

[**~Jenn~**]

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Originally Posted by STACEY I am absolutly floored, I dont even know what to say. I feel like I might have a panic attach right now. She is 31 years old..... who does this?

Listen, Just relax.
The onlything she is doing is making a complete ASS out of herself, just for showing up there!
I'm not sure how many people you have coming, but I would be sure to let them know what the deal is and ask them to keep a lookout for you on your day.
If you see her in the resort...Ignore her, but don't let it show that it bothers you that she's there...Act like she is just another stranger in the resort.
If & Only IF she comes up to you and says something that makes you think she will try something on your day...Take her aside and tell her, that if she so much as comes near you on your day..You'll make sure to call the Mexican Police..and everyone knows..the last thing you want to do in Mexico is get into it with the police!! LOL
But seriously..Let her know that your not gonna take her shit. This is your day and she is a pathetic loser who needs to grow up!!

Don;'t worry..You'll be fine and please don't let someone like that make you worry like you are. She isn't worth it! :-)

[dolfinluck]

I'm sorry you have to be going through this but seriously who does that? Do you have a mutual friend that can find out for you why she will be there?

[~Melissa~]

OK hold up - i thought this wacko was having money problems in the first place hence why it was such an issue for her to be there on your special day.

 

RED FLAGS - why would someone who doesn't particular like you anymore want to stay at the same resort that your wedding is going to be at! PSYCHO!@ OMG I'm in total disbelief. YOU do not deserve to be dealing with this 5 days prior to your wedding.

 

Someone needs to back off and cancel her trip. That's just ridiculous. I hope someone puts her in her place. And she wouldn't DARE mess with anything.

[SAM]

Wow that sucks! I would try to avoid her if she shows up. Have someone in your group (someone who is no nonsense) deal with her if she starts anything. If gets bad call the Mexican Police as PhillyBride mentioned...they are someone you do not mess with.

 

Just try to enjoy your day and forget about her. She is probably jealous and is only going to make an ass out of herself.