My youngest sister has passed...I want to cancel ceremony

[prettywoman]

I'm really sorry to hear that, my prayers go out to you and your family.

[Chiquita]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss I'm glad you talked it over with your family and decided to move ahead.. it's great you all made the decision together. A memorial for her on your wedding day sounds like a wonderful way to remember your sister.

[Nicole1]

Wow - I am so sorry for your loss. Take some time - and the right decision will come to you. I will pray for you and your family.

[roo66]

Dear indigo im so glad you have posted again and out of all the bad things your mum has found the strength to want to go ahead.whilst reading your post i was again taken back to the time my sister had died.We had bought tickets for the michael jackson concert my mum hadnt told Kerri she had a ticket and then she died and we felt guilty going and for her not having known she had a ticket this was all in 1988.What i did on the day was to buy 6 red roses i took 3 to the crematorium and the other three to the concert.I managed to get to the front and gave them to security who put them up on the stage.I WAS HAPPY.How about bringing back so.me stones from the beach and collecting flower petals and putting them at her resting place,you can do this as publicly or quietly as you wish. most times the most simple things turn out the best.im glad you have your partner to lean on he sounds like a good guy.xxxx

[DanielleNDerek]

I'm glad that your still having your wedding. I'm sure it's what your sister would of wanted for you.