Anyone here not having a bridal party??

[DWandMJ]

I'm sure there may be a better thread to post my inquiry, but here's my dilemma:

Our expected turn out will be about a dozen people, including my two sisters and my two closest friends. I started bouncing several ideas off of one sister that Im particularly close to and she's officially been deemed my MOH (she's the most reliable by far and an incredible sounding board). She so graciously offered to sit with the rest of the audience to avoid hurt feelings to the other sister or friends, but quite frankly, I want her presented as my MOH. She has been a rockstar through all of my neurotic, compulsive rants. Any more than the one attendant is too much for the size of the audience.

I'm not so much worried about the friends' reactions because I can use the reasoning that I want them to be able to sit back and enjoy their vacation, but how do I inform my other sister (or include her) without showing favoritism?

[elizamaria]

I also am not having a bridal party, I feel like it would be wierd to have 20 people there and 10 standing up with us.

All our close friends will be there, so it's hard to decide.

I am toying with the idea of to asking all our guests to wear white,(I won't be) so it will be like everyone is our bridal party.

 

so, your'e not alone...

[EngagedToBeMrsB]

I wont be having any bridal party at all whatsoever. I think it keeps it simple and is cheaper!