What to do??!!

[roo66]

Hi there my first thought was ah but you havnt been to a wedding there have you?Did i get out of the wrong side of the bed?maybe!!!!.In hindsight i would just ask her if she does find it a problem then its better to iron it out now rather than her stick pins in you every now and then.If that makes sence.One thing you learn from here peoples opinions are voiced later down the line.Id hate you to book and then have your ear chewed for it

[Hartyt509]

You have to do what you want to do. I'm the same don't like going to the same place twice and if I had my way I wouldn't be going back to Mexico but FI isn't like that and he loves the place so I gave in lol

 

Just ask her if she minds I bet she'll say no she isn't bothered. Don't stress over this because trust me far worse will follow chick x

[Sweetpea]

You CAN NOT accomodate everyone because if you start doing for one then everyone would want you to do it for them. You have to do want YOU and your FI wants that is what will matter at the end of the day.

[montegobay09]

We've realized that there's no way of making everyone happy and the main thing is that you're good with your decision. i'm sure your sister will understand if you explain your reasoning to her and she realizes all of the planning and accomodating you have to do.

[Jocy]

I just wanted to update everybody on my resort situation.

 

We still have finalized our resort but we have decided just to rule out the one my sister had been to before. It was stressing me out and my FI was very understanding and said it was my call. I realize this is our day and i certainly wouldn't do this for anybody. But for my sister, i think she's worth it.

 

So we've scrapped Iberostar from our "options" list and nobody will be any wiser!!

 

Oh the inside's of wedding planning.

What i wouldn't give to be able to hire someone to "plan" the whole thing!!

 

I do feel much better though now this is sorted.

 

Have a nice day and thanks again for all the great advice.

 

J

[kate.com]

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Originally Posted by Jocy I just wanted to update everybody on my resort situation. We still have finalized our resort but we have decided just to rule out the one my sister had been to before. It was stressing me out and my FI was very understanding and said it was my call. I realize this is our day and i certainly wouldn't do this for anybody. But for my sister, i think she's worth it. So we've scrapped Iberostar from our "options" list and nobody will be any wiser!! Oh the inside's of wedding planning. What i wouldn't give to be able to hire someone to "plan" the whole thing!! I do feel much better though now this is sorted. Have a nice day and thanks again for all the great advice. J

Good luck! It will be beautiful regardless of what you choose.