Getting really upset and frustrated....

[S2BLennon]

What a hard situation... Smart on FI's part, but hard.

the way I look at it is that once you have a wedding get a house and start to have kids, there is no such thing as no credit card debt...

Good luck to you - it will all work out in the end. Love will find a way!

[JoLo908]

It is so hard to save, I know... but don't worry, everything will fall in to place. Maybe you won't have to move the wedding, maybe you can just find different ways to save...you will figure it out and all will work out in the end...

[S2BLennon]

Become a stripper! Only kiddin!

[Michelle]

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Originally Posted by S2BLennon Become a stripper! Only kiddin!

hahah that just made my day so much better!! but seriously ive been trying all night to figure out the money saving thing and i think i figured out how to not move the date too much forward!!! YAY FOR ME!! lol

[Erica053009]

Erica you are so sweet and so right! as for my surgery I have a genetic condition that means I will 100% get colon cancer and so im having my colon removed to make sure i dont get really sick ...im gonna be in hospital after the surgery for two weeks and in bed for three months of recovery its gonna be rough...but ill be ok

 

Shelly,

 

wow that sounds like an intense procedure and really makes me think about the important things in life. We all sit here and swap ideas for our perfect day but the most important days are the ones we can't plan for and as long as you have him by your side during this surgery and long recovery supporting you is what really matters you are a lucky woman and maybe it is meant to be for the day to be pushed back. You have each other and that is all that matters

 

Good luck with everything and if you need anything feel free to contact me

[Michelle]

aww ya he is amazing to stick me with through this its gonna be really tough! ...so ya its kind of a good thing that the date has been pushed back so i have lots of time to get better..two more weeks til i go for the surgery so cross your fingers that everything goes well! thanks )

[1elephant]

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Originally Posted by shelly yaa im sure we could plan a buck and doe to raise some money! thats a great idea thanks Tara i totally forgot about it lol! And ya Danielle thats what all my friends have said to me..that im sure when it comes to the wedding it will be amazing no matter when it is and i just have to be really patient...im trying so hard to be patient lol..i just see all the pictures on here of peoples amazing weddings and its making it harder to wait haha...oh well

yes, but even after, you'll wish you could go back and do it again, so pushing it off won't really matter good luck!