can't decide between friends...can i have both?

[Jacqueline]

u can totally have both! i was in a wedding where this happened and its totally fine, i like the idea. ) the rule is- make your own rules- its YOUR day ;o)

[laybar]

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Originally Posted by amyh Why not! We had 9 Maids of Honor and 9 Bestmen, We didn't choose. My brother and DH's sis gave the speech. Its your wedding!

I love this idea! lol

[KAMAY11]

I say have both! One Matron of Honor, the other the Maid of Honor.

[tvt]

yup, me too, i agree, have both!

[happygilmore]

Just my two cents -- I have been in the situation where I was the made of honor and another friends was the Matron of honor--normally wouldn't care but I don't get along/respect this ygirl and so it was hard....but I sucked it up cause it was my friend's wedding -- but if the two don't get along I wouldn't recommend it.

[Jenn3878]

Do what makes you happy

[EricaG]

I say go for it. There is no reason they can't both be. It is your day, do what you want!!!

[Virg]

I HAVE 2 CO-MAIDS OF HONOUR!

And they love it! That way not all the responsibility goes on one person!

[*Casey*]

You can ABSOLUTELY have both! My mom actually suggested I do that. It's your day, so make sure you have what you want.

[JamaicaBride2009]

You absolutely CAN have both. Lots of people do. And not to sound like a broken record, but at YOUR wedding, YOU set the rules!